Friday, July 5, 2013

Get Back Your Wife with 5 Quick Smart Steps

Getting back your wife seems easy for some but for others it is very hard and a challenging endeavor.   However for husbands who love their wife so dearly, it doesn't matter anymore! They will do everything in their power to get their wife back even if it means waiting for a longer period of time.

How to Win Her?


What would you do to win back your wife? Well there are 5 scientific steps that you can follow. All you have to do is to implement the steps provided hereunder and they are more likely to work in your favor, provided however that your ex wife still loves you and is open to the idea of you both getting back together.

Step 1    Planning


The planning stage is one of the crucial parts of his conquest. Everything starts from this stage. Your success and failure depend entirely on how you effectively plan your actions. One good way is to strategize your ideas. Analyze whether you have to tap on your wife’s weaknesses and use it on your favor or you rather re-enforce your good side to promote the long-forgotten qualities of yours.

Using her weaknesses maybe one possible area to consider however I believe that doing so doesn't prove much your worth. Somehow you are pointing out her vulnerability whereas if you exploit the positive side of you, you are in fact enhancing your overall persona. You among others would benefit the most. Why? Because it recreates the old you into the once passionate, loving, romantic, understanding, patient and responsible person that you were before!  Then make sure that your ex wife sees the NEW YOU! The person that she has fallen in love with!

Step 2   Implementing


Now that you have your plans, you have to get ready to implement them. Executing them though is not as hard as planning. You are simply putting into action what you have set to do. But of course you need to do them right. You have to make sure that they are not hastily done.
So it is at this stage that if before, you unknowingly ignored the needs of your wife, you must correct it now. Men usually are not aware of the special needs of a woman. Like for example, wives need to be told how much they are loved by their husbands. They need that reassurance every now and then. It may sound irritating to keep on professing your love but if your wife wants that, then by all means, give it to her!

Step 3   Evaluating


After implementing your plan, the next thing that you should do is to evaluate how effective they are. Did it get you the results that you desire? If not, find out why?  Discover which area did you fail and then try to augment those grey areas! There must be a way to perfect it!

Step 4   Revising


After evaluating which plans are working and which are not, your next step is to correct those that are not. Make some revisions. This is one of the hardest parts because it means that you have to find a better way if not the best. The question is, how are you going to do that? Well, dig deeper! Do some more research! Recall situations in the past that were magically solved by both of you. Or if you wish, you can solicit ideas or suggestions from closest friends. They may have innovative ideas that are perfect for your problem.

Step 5   Complimenting


When implementing the revised plan, it’s wise to back up your strategies with action, like sending flowers with matching chocolates or gifting her with one of her favorite perfumes, handbags or make ups maybe. Or you can also be a little naughty and send her sexy lingerie. Something that could remind her of you, of your happy days! Don’t you think doing so would boost your sincerity? Well, there’s no harm in trying! Besides you should never stop. It’s a continuous process until you get what you want or until she begs you and say...Welcome my love!



The above tips and tricks though simple could help you win your wife back after separation ordivorce.  If however, despite your relentless efforts, plans didn't come off, do not lose hope because you can always think of another plan. Also there are professional people who are in the business of helping couples like you. You may refer to them too for more tips. Clickthis link to get in touch.